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What actually happens at an AI & Coffee event

If you have never been to one, the hardest part is not knowing what you are walking into. Here is the honest version.

The most common reason people give for not coming to a meetup is not lack of interest. It is not knowing what happens once they are through the door, and not wanting to be the person standing alone holding a coffee. So here is the plain description.

You will not be quizzed

Nobody checks your background at the door. The room is a mix of people who build with AI every day, people who use it occasionally at work, and people who have never opened a model in their life and are curious what the noise is about. All three are normal here. Saying "I do not really know anything about this yet" is a completely ordinary thing to say, and it usually gets you a better conversation than pretending otherwise.

The shape of an evening

It depends on the format, and the formats differ mostly in size and pace rather than in content. A Circle starts seated, with everyone introducing themselves in turn, so by the time the room opens up you already know who you want to talk to. An All-in is the big one: a short opening, a few ten minute talks, then networking for as long as you feel like staying. Lunch and Dinner are small, around a table, and closer to a good conversation with strangers than to an event.

The one thing all of them have in common is that the talking part is the point. The talks are there to give the room something to talk about, not the other way around.

What to bring

  • Nothing, for most formats. Just turn up.
  • A laptop, if the event is a hands-on one and says so.
  • One question you actually want answered. It is the easiest way to start a conversation.

Events are free to attend. If you leave having had two conversations worth having, that is the evening working as intended.

The events these are written about are free and happen every month.

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